Blogcast: The Pressures of Privilege: a new chapter

December 01, 2024 00:03:44
Blogcast: The Pressures of Privilege: a new chapter
The Pressures of Privilege
Blogcast: The Pressures of Privilege: a new chapter

Dec 01 2024 | 00:03:44

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Diana Oehrli

Show Notes

When I told my mother I was going to rename this blog, “The Pressures of Privilege” and start writing about money, she shuddered.

In families like mine, talking about money is taboo—yet it remains central to our lives, often cloaked in terms like "legacy," quietly dictating our choices, relationships, and responsibilities.

Why this change? 

Since returning to Rhode Island from Switzerland, I've felt out of alignment. My journey has been unconventional: after seven years in journalism in the US, I spent 17 years in the Swiss Alps, where I connected with my late father's agrarian roots, worked for a community newspaper, and helped found a magazine. During this time, I got sober, identified my core values—mastery, empathy, and authenticity—and transitioned from journalism to coaching. I became an ICF-certified coach, wrote a yet-to-be-published book, and explored everything from finding purpose to navigating life as an Adult Third Culture Kid...

 

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Episode Transcript

[00:00:01] The Pressures of Privilege A New Chapter When I told my mother I was going to rename this blog the Pressures of Privilege and start writing about money, she shuddered. In families like mine, talking about money is taboo. Yet it remains central to our lives, often cloaked in terms like legacy, quietly dictating our choices, relationships and responsibilities. Why this change? Since returning to Rhode island from Switzerland, I've felt out of alignment. My journey has been unconventional. After seven years in journalism in the U.S. i spent 17 years in the Swiss Alps where I connected with my late father's agrarian roots, worked for a community newspaper, and helped found a magazine. During this time I got sober, identified my core values mastery, empathy and authenticity and transitioned from journalism to coaching. I became an ICF certified coach, wrote a yet to be published book, and explored everything from finding purpose to navigating life as an adult third culture kid. [00:00:58] But something was still amiss. Back in my mother's world, I found myself hiding and isolating. [00:01:04] Working with coaches to navigate this internal block, I began to question my limiting beliefs. As I embraced my English American heritage, a part of me that had felt disconnected for so long, something shifted. Clients who shared my experience with inherited wealth began to find me, and for the first time I felt genuine empathy for people facing similar challenges. [00:01:25] My unique perspective comes from being the daughter of a Swiss mountain guide and an American philanthropist and photojournalist. This dual heritage blends Swiss pragmatism with American optimism, Old World discretion with new world transparency. [00:01:40] 3. Foundational pillars as we explore the pressures of privilege, our discussions will center around identity and worth. Discover tools and strategies to define your authentic path, embrace your self worth and break free from the limitations of societal expectations. [00:01:57] 2. Belonging and well Being Learn how to cultivate deeper connections, improve your mental health and build a support system that aligns with your values. 3. Responsibilities and legacy Gain clarity on balancing family expectations with personal vision while making a meaningful impact through your wealth. [00:02:16] To ground these pillars, I'm launching a three part series called beyond the Golden Ghetto which we'll explore the money taboo, why wealth can feel ugly to those who inherited it. [00:02:27] 2. When shame is the norm unpacking love, abuse and intimacy 3. Imposter syndrome in the World of Privilege who am I without my wealth? This series is designed to provide you with fresh perspectives and actionable insights. These posts will offer practical steps to move forward with confidence. [00:02:45] Each part will share my unconventional perspective, addressing questions from clients and readers. [00:02:51] After the new year, I will be opening a few coaching spots. While my current schedule is full, you can join the priority waiting list. Click here to send an email with yes in the body and join the wait list. [00:03:02] Moving Forward Together these conversations aren't always comfortable, but they're necessary. My hope is that by writing about these topics, we can transform the pressures of privilege into opportunities for growth. [00:03:14] If my mother shudders again, I'll remind her. Talking about money doesn't diminish its value. It adds context, clarity, and most importantly, humanity allows us to transform inherited privilege into intentional impact. [00:03:27] Whether you've been here since the beginning or just discovering my work, I welcome your thoughts on this direction. This new direction. Please share this blog with others who might benefit from these conversations. Stay tuned. I can't wait to share this with you. Here's to this next chapter.

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