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[00:00:04] The Health wealth Divide Part 1 of 6 Nutrition why Ultra high net worth individuals can be surprisingly unhealthy and how wealth secretly undermines the six pillars of health.
[00:00:16] She and money, access and the kind of healthy lifestyle that looked bulletproof from the outside. A private chef, a nutritionist, organic everything.
[00:00:25] Periods of intense training, a body that could do hard things. The day before she died, she'd been on a long flight. She was 58. She died in her sleep.
[00:00:35] But her patterns were complicated. Earlier years of chaotic eating, weight that fluctuated, high stress at work and home, constant travel, recovery from drugs and alcohol. And even in the good years, the issue wasn't processed food. It was volume. Good food, sometimes too sweet, sometimes simply too much of it.
[00:00:55] She lived inside a high comfort household where abundance was normal, food was always around, portions were generous. There was a subtle social pressure to keep eating. Stress made it easy to drift into late night snacks. Later, a family member told me, it runs through all of us. Hardening of the arteries so how does someone with access to the best food, the best advice, concierge medicine, extensive testing, the best everything end up with arteries that tell a different story?
[00:01:23] That's the question I've been asking myself for nine years as an executive coach. It's what pushed me to complete my Mayo Clinic Health and Wellness Coach training. Because I kept seeing the same pattern. Wealth buys access to everything that supports health while quietly undermining the behaviors that create it. This is the health wealth divide. What I already knew earlier this year, I studied lifestyle medicine coaching through Harvard Medical School, and I completed the Mayo Clinic Health and Wellness Coach Training. Both programs taught me about the six pillars of health nutrition, physical activity, sleep, stress management, social connection or connectedness and avoidance of risky substances.
[00:02:02] Here's the thing. I already knew these pillars not because I'm smart, but because I grew up with them. I was raised in Switzerland, Monte Carlo, in a small village in southwestern France where life meant long meals around the table, Mediterranean food and Swiss grandparents who ate cheese and butter without anxiety.
[00:02:20] My Chinese nanny added her own patterns. Simple food, nothing wasted meals at set times and really enjoying food. These traditions taught me the pillars before they had official names. Meals eaten together, daily movement that wasn't exercise, sleep that wasn't negotiable connection that wasn't scheduled stress that supported productivity but not burnout and hard booze. Basically never wine during meals, in moderation or not at all.
[00:02:47] But I also learned the hard way. At 10, I had an operation that damaged my intestines. I've had to fine tune my diet ever since. Not as a lifestyle choice, but as a requirement. And as a teenager, before I understood any of this, I used crackers, cookies and Nutella to feel better.
[00:03:06] I know what it is to use food as comfort. I know what it costs later. 12 step recovery gave me the unforgettable framework Halt Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired Four states that can lead toward Relapse this framework fits into the six pillars.
[00:03:23] What Harvard and Mayo gave me was the medical evidence for what I already understood.
[00:03:28] What my work with ultra high net worth clients has given me is the missing piece. How wealth can quietly dismantle every pillar over the next six weeks, we'll look at each pillar through this lens, starting with the most basic what we eat.
[00:03:45] Nutrition what wealth makes easier.
[00:03:48] Private chefs. Huge designer kitchens. Organic everything.
[00:03:53] Supplements that cost more than most people's monthly grocery budget. Personal nutritionists Meals delivered to your exact specifications. Time to cook. If you actually want to cook, in theory, you can eat perfectly. You have access to the best well. How wealth undermines it. You're never hungry or you're feeling. Every meal is personalized, which means every meal requires decisions. The chef makes it perfect so nothing feels special. You can have anything, so you want everything.
[00:04:24] Some entrepreneurial clients eat standing up because sitting down feels like wasting time. They eat alone because their schedules are too packed. They have 17 types of olive oil, but they can't remember the last time they actually enjoyed a meal.
[00:04:37] The constant novelty pulls them in. New restaurants, new wellness trends, new superfoods until eating becomes stimulation. Instead of nourishment, they buy green powders that are still ultra processed. They buy meat substitutes marketed as healthy that come with ingredients your grandparents wouldn't recognize. They order the most expensive thing on the menu and call it better, even when it isn't.
[00:05:01] What hides behind privilege?
[00:05:03] There's a pressure in wealthy circles that rarely gets named. You're always being seen, photographed at galas, tagged at dinners, judged at the school. Pickup in ways that middle class parents rarely experience.
[00:05:16] Looking good isn't vanity. It's identity, and the body becomes another thing to manage.
[00:05:21] This is where orthorexia hides the obsession with clean eating that gets lauded. The ingredient anxiety that looks like sophistication. It gives a sense of control because everything else feels out of control.
[00:05:36] You look fine. You look better than fine. But your relationship with food is disordered. No one around you will say so, because in your world, thin is always right. Or, as the old line goes, you can never be too rich or too thin. And now we have a pharmaceutical accelerant for that same impulse. GLP1 drugs. In some circles they're not being used to go from all unhealthy to healthy. They're being used to go from a size 4 to a size 0 without insurance. The price for Ozempic is around $1,000 a month and the long term effects are still being studied. When a drug can erase hunger, hunger starts to feel like a flaw instead of a signal. And on the other end, binge eating behind closed doors. Excess as release, food as sedation. Shame and guilt lead to more hidden splurges.
[00:06:23] Food is the only socially acceptable coping mechanism left because other coping mechanisms would be a problem.
[00:06:30] Princess Diana spoke openly about her bulimia. The private rebellion happening inside a very public life. She's not the exception, she just made the pattern visible.
[00:06:41] Choose friction. Here's a counterintuitive.
[00:06:46] Make food boring again.
[00:06:48] Not joyless, but stable. Simple, Quick, clean, Natural. Start by detoxing from sugar. I did it by eating only fruit that was in season. No artificial sugar. No added sweeteners. It took a month.
[00:07:01] Now an apple tastes like candy. If fruit doesn't taste sweet enough for you, you may be so used to hyper sweet foods that you need a reset. I recently tried a high protein drink sweetened with monk fruit marketed as healthy, zero carbs. The taste was so sweet I almost gagged. That's how far my palate has shifted. And that's the point when real food tastes bland.
[00:07:24] Something's been hijacked.
[00:07:26] Too much added sugar is associated with higher blood pressure and increased chronic inflammation. Two pathways that matter for heart health. You'll also hear more clinicians exploring ketogenic approaches for metabolic health and in some cases, mental health, especially in treatment resistant situations. The research points to mitochondrial function, how cells produce energy. It's early, but it's research worth following. My Chinese nanny said don't buy too much food at one time. That way you always eat fresh. A simple meal takes 30 minutes. The time you lose cooking. Lose cooking, you gain back in years. Steam vegetables in an array of colors. Balance the ones that grow above ground with the ones that grow below. Cook meat without too much added flavoring. Salt, pepper and herbs. That's it. Drizzle olive oil after. Keep the flavor in the food.
[00:08:18] Allow yourself to feel hunger. Simple, repeatable eating patterns. The same breakfast most days. Meals at roughly the same time. No constant grazing. Eat sitting down with other people when possible. Take a little bit before you fill your plate. If you like it, take seconds.
[00:08:35] Two external sources that have helped me big time Mireille Guiano and Jackie Wicks Mireille Guiano's French Women Don't Get Fat is basically choose friction in French clothing. Stop eating on the run. Make meals intentional. Eat less by eating better and by being fully present for it. The goal isn't perfect food. And when you've strayed after travel, stress, or a season of too much of everything, try her famous plain leek soup. Reset.
[00:09:05] Jackie Wick's cheat system doesn't ban food entirely. It creates a simple framework. Nutrient dense, eats you lean on and cheats you count account for instead of pretending you'll never want them.
[00:09:17] The brilliance is psychological. You have to add food. When you lead with eats, vegetables, protein, fruit and healthy fat, you're less likely to rebound into chaos later. The add first structure reduces shame, and shame is often the match that lights the overeating spiral. Eating. Even Andrew Huberman, who talks about supplements a lot, emphasizes that they're add ons, not the foundation.
[00:09:41] The real leverage is the unsexy stuff. Whole, minimally processed foods, enough protein and consistent meal timing limits create freedom. My Chinese nanny understood this. You eat what's prepared. You eat when it's time. You don't make every meal a referendum on optimization.
[00:10:00] Choose friction. Fewer choices, fewer experiments, fewer protocols. Let some meals be ordinary. Eat because you're hungry.
[00:10:10] Next week Physical activity or why having $500 an hour trainer doesn't mean you're actually moving your body.
[00:10:21] If this episode landed for you, share it with someone who might need to hear it. And if you haven't already, subscribe so you don't miss what's coming. But here's the real thing. I want you to know if you're carrying something you can't talk about, if you have every resource except someone who actually understands what wealth costs. I work one on one with people like you navigating exactly that. You can reach me@diana oehrli.com thanks for listening.
